Sense Weavefield Financial planning · Narathiwat

Stories

What people said after they had lived with the paper.

These are households who agreed to be quoted by a first name and a place. The plans themselves stay in the room.

A year with a boat

Nisah, her brother, and eleven weeks the boat stayed in.

Nisah and her brother share a small fishing boat out of a tambon east of Ra-ngae. They booked an Annual Household Plan in January 2025 because the previous year had ended in an argument about who had spent the engine repair. They wanted the next argument to have a page.

At the opening sitting Anong asked them to separate three purses: fuel and bait for the boat, the house they share with their mother, and Nisah’s own saving toward a second-hand motorbike. The brother wanted the motorbike delayed. Nisah wanted it named anyway, as the third goal, with a monthly amount small enough that a missed week at sea would not break it. They agreed, grudgingly, and the plan put school costs for a niece they support on the house line rather than on the boat.

The year did not follow the paper. Between March and June the boat stayed in for eleven weeks, first for weather, then for a shaft that took longer than the mechanic had said. At the mid-year sitting they brought a notebook smeared with oil. The fuel line was almost untouched, because there had been little fuel to buy. The house line was short. They moved the untouched fuel figure across to the house, left the niece’s school amount where it was, and stopped the motorbike saving until after the shaft was paid. Nisah was angry on the way home and, she told us later, relieved by September, when the boat was working and the school fees had not been borrowed.

She also said the written plan used words she would not use at the dock. Anong rewrote two lines in plainer Thai before the mid-year sitting. That rewrite is now how the practice drafts a plan when the household asks for plain speech.

Siti and Mathee

Provision shop, Amphoe Ra-ngae · Annual Household Plan

Anong made us put the roof ahead of the visit to my sister. I was cross in the room, because I had already promised we would come. By August the roof had taken almost the amount written down, and the visit money was still in the tin. I will say this too: the first copy of the plan was printed too small for my father. They printed a larger one when I asked, but that should have been the first version.

Arunee

Primary-school teacher, Tambon Bo-o · Goal Mapping Sitting

We only had ninety minutes and I spent the start talking about the school where I work. Kittisak kept returning me to three goals of our own. The third was a pump for my mother’s house, the one I had been avoiding. I left with a monthly figure beside it that I can take from my salary without pretending the other two do not exist.

Hafiz

Rubber smallholding, near Ra-ngae · Mid-year Plan Sitting

Rain stopped the tapping for eleven days in June. The sitting was the first time I said that number to someone who was not my wife. We moved a motorbike repair onto the house-fund line and left the school fees where they were. I still dislike looking at the paper. I do know which week is thin.

Darika

Sat with her mother, Tambon Bo-o · School and House Fund Conversation

I came because my mother will not talk about money over rice. In the office she did talk. We wrote the clinic mornings and the helper who comes twice a week. I had armed myself for an argument and it was closer to a list. My mother said afterwards that the lamp was too dim to read her own figures. That part was fair.

Prasert

Clerical work, drives from Narathiwat town · Annual Household Plan

I wanted to pay the whole fee in one transfer. Paying twice felt fussy, and I said so. Anong was plain that the second part waits until the written plan is in my hands, so I agreed, though I would still rather pay once. The plan split my daughter’s costs in Hat Yai into months. I had been carrying them as one frightening total.

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